Dylan Hart Lends A Hand
I have to first start this post off by saying how hung over I am. I don't normally get the headache and all that, just a feeling of lethargic "ickyness", but my head is pounding right now!
And I have to add that I had some real shitty news today. I just found out that my best buddy is moving out of the city, 200 miles away. I wouldn't care so much about that, it's his life after all and we would still catch up a couple of times a year. But what annoys me more is that he couldn't be bothered to tell me. I had to find out from someone else.
What does it say about a friendship when the person you view as your closest friend for over ten years doesn't tell you that he's moving 200 miles away? Maybe I'm just being dramatic, but to me that's the kind of thing you tell your closest friend.
Anyway, I'm drowning my sorrows tonight, and I'm still cruising the net today looking for something to cheer me up. This guy cheers me up a little. His name is Dylan Hart, and he's photographed by Sean Higgins for this interesting collection of pics. I can't say I get it, but it's still interesting, and the guy is still hot!
So, I'll be back tomorrow, hopefully feeling a little better. Let me know if you think I'm out of line for being pissed at my buddy, or if you think I'm right to be upset about it. I really would like to know your thoughts.
honesty ,for me, is top five of my list for friends…..I am sorry you thought he was close to you but this just shows you clearly that he’s not…I am pretty good at cutting them off if they did that to me…no emails, no communication..I don’t know how long you knew him, was he more then a friend etc..but that is so shitty to do to a person and believe me, I have had it dome to me BUT they’ll never see/hear from me again…now a member of your close family is a bit different but I still do it with one of my older Brother’s wife…she fucking stabbed me in the back..BRUTUS!!!
We love you Conran!!
xo
Tony
Thanks Tony, you’ve kind of affirmed what I believe too. I’ve actually known him for over ten years now, we lived together for a year too. He’s always been my “gigging buddy”, the one I call up when there’s a festival or band to go see. He got into a real serious relationship about three years ago, leading to them moving in together within 6 months, marriage a year later, now two children… he’s only in his 20’s! Now they’re moving he’s leaving all his friends behind, his family, his first son, a job – I just wonder if they’re trying too hard to keep something alive that’s dead already.
I think I agree with you – cut him out. He clearly doesn’t respect our friendship and I really don’t need people like that in my life. I guess if it’s that easy to just dismiss me then we weren’t really friends to begin with.
Thanks again Tony, your opinion has helped me to clarify things in my mind. It’s just really upsetting to me because my friends are my world. x
Dylan
you are hot
email me
want a real chance to travel
new career
meet kings
I am sorry your friend let you down, but I don’t feel the same way. I think there may be more going on, and your friend may not have known how to break this to you. I think communication is the most important thing we have, but most people are shitty at it. I’d reach out to your friend, let him know he let you down by not talking to you, and wish him well. At that point, it’s in his court.
In the meantime, keep doing what you’re doing with the blog. You have great taste, and you help to brighten my day!
hugs
HUGS Conran, I agree maybe he didn`t know how to tell you he is moving. love all the pics you post ! love, Tony